Some of you might be saying, “The holidays? Already? Isn’t it too early for that?” I’ll admit that I don’t like hearing Christmas carols in the grocery store in October or walking past rows of Christmas trees before the leaves have even fallen from the trees outside, but if you are thinking about planning holiday events and parties – now is the time to begin.
And this is one of my favourites.
What is a “New-To-You Gift Swap?”
It is similar to the standard office party/large group gift exchange, where everyone brings a gift to the event, and everyone takes a different gift home. The big difference is that the gift you bring is something you already own.
What types of items do people bring to a new-to-you exchange?
It could be that beautiful Christmas ornament that you just never put out, or that scarf you were given that you never wear because it doesn’t match your coat, or that game you thought you’d love but your family never plays. It’s something that you don’t use anymore, but you think someone else might love. This leads to a whole lot of variety, and a whole lot of fun. One year one of the party-goers in my group of friends wrapped up a tacky Christmas sweater as her contribution to the exchange. What a laugh we had when that gift was opened! It was quickly followed with a photo shoot of the recipient modeling the “beautiful” sweater. It was such fun that it has become a tradition and there always seems to be a festive sweater hidden in the pile each year (and with the popularity of “ugly sweater” parties, it has actually become a very useful gift!) J Of course, if you only want pretty things or useful things at your party, you can just say so in your invite.
Why bother? Why not just buy something new?
In my group of friends, the gift exchange started as a way to share the joy of gift giving with each other, without having to add another item to our long “to buy” lists. For those of us concerned about the environment, it is a way to reuse and recycle and lesson the “consumer” aspect of the holiday season. But most of all – it’s fun! The selection of gifts is always varied and it’s exciting to see what items will appear in the gift exchange each year.
How do you decide who gets what gift?
This is the fun part! We play a game commonly called a “Yankee Swap” around here. (I have no idea how it got that name.) You can find the rules here. It’s the swapping and exchanging part of this gift-giving game that makes it so enjoyable – and it’s always interesting to see which gifts are the most popular and most often swapped. There are other ways you could hand out gifts, of course. But adding a game aspect adds to the excitement.
What would I write in an invitation?
On top of the usual “what, where, when” here are some things you might include:
You are invited to a “New-to-You Gift Swap” – a gift exchange party without the stress of buying a gift!
As part of this evening of fun and giving, each person will give a gift, and go home with a different gift. The only rule is – the gift must be something you already own. Maybe it’s something you have, but never use. Or something you love, but don’t need anymore. It doesn’t matter what the item is, as long as it is something that can be used by someone else. The variety of gifts is half the fun! Don’t forget to wrap it up!
Take it a step further…
Are you loving the swap idea? Here are a few ideas to take it a notch further:
- Have a tacky swap party. If laughs are more important than the gift, have everyone search their houses for the tackiest thing they can find and wrap that up! This might be a great accompaniment to one of those “ugly sweater” parties!
- With a really close group of friends you could go in the other direction and have everyone bring something they own that they really love. This is the true spirit of giving, isn’t it? Giving things that are important to us to those we love!
- If you really want to make this an earth-friendly party, you could also encourage reusable wrapping for your exchange gifts.
Time to Party!
Does anyone else host these types of parties or plan to hold one this year? Please share your thoughts and ideas in the comments!
I was inspired to write this post after “meeting” Amy from Joy to the Earth. Her plan for a more joy-filled, less commercial Christmas really resonated with me. It reminds me of the story of the Grinch - where Christmas came to Whoville even without the presents, the decorations, the roast beast. That’s the holiday I am celebrating this year – the one that makes us sing for joy no matter what is lying beneath the tree! Happy party planning!Read More
Happy Thanksgiving to all of my Canadian friends and readers! After a bout of cold weather here (and even a little snow!) we have been blessed with a weekend of summer weather. I am enjoying the beautiful warm breeze blowing through the window right now and know I will be out in the garden later today, harvesting herbs and cleaning out some spent plants.
On this week-end of thanksgiving, I am so thankful for the beauty that surrounds us. I am continually awed and inspired by the landscape here – the rivers, the trees, the hills, the valleys. How blessed we are to be able to hop into our canoe and enjoy views such as these.
Enjoying it all with the people I love makes it even better.
What are you thankful for today?Read More
I like to keep a magnetic pad of paper on the fridge for recording grocery items we need to buy. This makes it easy to write down what we need, as we run out of it. Otherwise I am bound to forget on grocery day just what it is we ran out of during the week.
Unfortunately, I do not have much luck with magnetic pads. In many cases the magnets stick to the fridge, but the paper doesn’t, pulling right off the magnetic back, so I have a whole collection of pads of paper and their corresponding magnetic backs, but still nothing on my fridge.
This past year the problem was temporarily solved with a snowman paper pad I was given at Christmas that stuck perfectly. The only downside to this was that Hubby, who does most of the grocery shopping, did not like walking through the store in mid-summer with a large piece of red-hatted snowman paper. Unfortunately for him, I wasn’t about to give up a pad that worked so he suffered through (dear man.)
But I used the last snowman today.
I also make more than one list as there are several places that we shop for food so I am constantly adding new pieces of paper to the fridge with the plain black magnets torn from the back of our useless paper pads. Functional, but not pretty.
Now I have a list for everything, and no more papers falling off the fridge!
Here’s how I made them.
I used the Mod Podge to glue the fabric to the foam, wrapping it like a present to keep the corners neat.
I used a glue gun to glue the magnet to the back of the magnet, covering the folded edges of the fabric. (Handy Hint: make sure you glue the magnet magnetic-side up, instead of upside-down like I did….)
While the magnets were drying, I went down to the computer and printed off the names of the different lists in a pretty font. If I had return-address sized labels I think they would have fit perfectly, but since I didn’t I used the shipping labels I already had and just cut them apart.
I then stuck the labels to the front of the magnets and put them on the fridge. An easy way to use what I already had and be a little more organized.
And Hubby will be happy that he doesn’t have to take a snowman to the grocery store anymore!Read More
When I was doing a Google search for something completely different, I discovered this amazing sewing website (don’t you love it when that happens?)
It’s called Pattern Rescue, and it is a place where they collect, complete, trade, and give away vintage sewing patterns.
Have a pattern that is missing pieces – they will find the pieces for you. Have old patterns you don’t want anymore – trade them in for something different. Inherited a huge stash of patterns you won’t use – donate them and leave a tribute to your loved one.
Check it out! http://www.patternrescue.com/Read More
Happy Earth day! I have had it in my mind for a while that I would like to do a post on making your own cleaners, and what better day to do it than on a day when we celebrate all the ways we can take better care of our Earth?
Some of the things I love about making my own cleaners is that my house doesn’t smell like chemicals, I don’t have to deal with bottles of stuff with warnings like “use in a well-ventilated area” or “may cause irritation if it comes in contact with skin,” and they’re cheap and easy to make! It’s a great way to save money, save the earth, and preserve your health, all at the same time! What more could you ask from a household cleaner??
There are really only two main ingredients in my cleaning cupboard and they are vinegar and baking soda. With those two items I can clean almost everything in the house (and I always have the ingredients on hand to create “erupting volcanoes” a fun science trick that never ceases to please the little ones in my life).
Plain vinegar is great for removing water stains from toilets (pour some in and soak overnight) and as a fabric softener in the laundry. It is also the main ingredient in two of my favourite cleaners. And don’t forget to save the empty bottles for making your own laundry soap!
Window and Glass Cleaner Combine 1 part water to 1 part vinegar in a spray bottle. Spray the surface and wipe with newsprint. The trick to getting a streak-free shine is to continue to use dry pieces of paper (once the newsprint is saturated it will streak). I just keep folding the paper over on itself as I go to keep it from getting too wet.
All-Purpose Cleaner Combine 1 part vinegar to 2 parts water in a spray bottle. Add 20 or 30 drops of eucalyptus oil. You could probably also use tea tree oil. I use this for general cleaning and disinfecting (counter tops, sink handles, light switches, door handles, toilets, the telephone, etc). I also use it with my Mr. Clean wet mop – when the cleaner that came with it ran out I just filled the bottle up with this instead and it works great!
Plain baking soda is great for scrubbing and scouring! I use it to clean sinks, tubs, toilets, the oven top and the fridge (it’s great for getting finger marks off the handles.) Simply sprinkle on, add a few drops of water, and scrub away with a cleaning cloth. Use steel wool instead of a cloth and you’ve got a fantastic oven cleaner (without the noxious fumes).
Salt is also a great cleaner and can really shine up a kitchen sink! I will also sometimes use a half a lemon to freshen things up too!
While we are talking about cleaners I should mention that I do not have paper towels in my house. (Correction, hubby has some which he hides away somewhere for his use only but I think in the whole 5 years we have been married he has only had to purchase them once or twice). Growing up with paper towels I didn’t really know what to do without them at first, but now I can’t remember what it is that I used to use them for! Instead of paper we bought a large pile of dishcloths that are used for cleaning only (they are a completely different kind and colour than the ones we use for dishes) and they are used for all sorts of household messes and tidy-up jobs.
These are my dusting cloths. The red pieces on top were cut from an old sweater and I have to say they are the best dust cloths I have ever owned (Swiffer would be jealous). I’m not sure what the sweater is made of (it’s definitely not wool) but if I ever see another one like it in a thrift store it’s mine! The cloth underneath is flannel (actually a piece of one of my baby blankets if you can believe it – that cloth is 31 years old and still in use!) which also works well for dusting and cleaning.
I will leave you with this photo which I took for hubby as a joke one day:
If you have any “green” cleaning tips or other recipes for simple homemade cleaners, I’d love to hear them!Read More