We lost our TV a few months ago due to our ongoing house renovations. (We still own it, it’s just dusty and dirty and the only place to sit and watch it is just a few centimeters from the screen.)
And I haven’t missed it.
Not that I have ever been a big TV watcher to begin with, but when it was there to be watched, and there was something interesting on, there I would be, hoping to see something new, or informative, or entertaining.
Now that it’s not there, I have missed every “interesting” program that has been on in the last three months.
And I haven’t given it a second thought.
When we had a TV, and I came home from work exhausted, I would sometimes plunk myself down in front of the thing “just to relax.”
Now I curl up with a good book, catch up on my favourite blogs, sew, or write.
When we had a TV, I would often cuddle up next to Hubby in the evenings, just to be near him and watch whatever he was watching (although I might ask him to change the channel first…..) And then I would get hooked into the program and convince myself it was ok to stay up late to see it to the end…. and another night would go by when I wouldn’t get enough sleep.
Now there are nights when hubby and I cuddle up in bed with our books, two bookworms enjoying the written word, and each others company. And when I’m tired, the bookmark holds my place until the next night.
It’s funny how you never realize how something impacts your life, until you experience life without it.
And I hope when it returns (and hubby assures me it WILL be returning) that I will remember that I am happier without it.
Have you ever had something removed from your life, only to discover that you didn’t really need it the way you thought you did?


Our house is much the same in that my husband feels TV’s lure far more strongly than I do. (The computers also have significant gravitational pull, but that’s another story). I had had thoughts of no TV when we had kids, but he was not going to let that happen.
Something that helps us all is the DVR. We record PBS shows for my son to watch so there’s always an acceptable option when he gets TV time. And my husband and I record a few shows that we can sit and watch in just one or two nights, rather than sit for one show and end up watching hours of junk. It’s not nearly as liberating as being TV-free, but it’s a definite improvement.
Thanks for the suggestion. I have many friends who love their DVR!
Good evening, Andrea! I agree with you that we should limit our amount of television viewing time. You are very resourceful – it’s good to hear that you’ve rewarded yourself with more time in the evenings to read books, blog and sew! It’s adorable that you and your husband read together before going to sleep!